Dear Sue, So sorry to hear the sad news about your Mum - even though someone close to you can be ill for many months you can never really prepare for the end.... All I can say is, - just let all your emotions come and go as they please, don't try to fight them, or ignore them.... live with them and in time you will fully come to accept the events of the past few months.... remembering happier times and dwelling less on the more challenging, difficult times you and your family have experienced recently. It goes without saying that should you need anything- whatsoever - don't hesitate to ask.. With lots of love Jane & Brian (card from Jane & Brian Pincham)